You’re soft, cuddly and curvy. He’s handsome, he fills your heart with joy and standing next to him sometimes makes you feel like a fatty. You’re a curvy girl dating a slim guy.
I’d like to preface this by saying there is nothing wrong with being curvy, nor is there anything wrong with being slim. This is simply a truthful piece about the ups and downs of a specific type of relationship. One I happen to very much enjoy being in myself. So, without further adieu, this is just a glimpse at what it’s like to be a curvy girl dating a slim guy.
You can’t comfortably wear most of his shirts because your boobs won’t fit into them.
So far I have only been able to fit into ONE of Ryan’s shirts. C cups don’t fit well into most small women’s tops much less small mens shirts.
You also can’t casually slip on his sweatpants cause the booty too fat.
It’s possible to get them on, but your thighs sorta feel like your arm does when it’s being squeezed by a blood pressure cuff.
Your heart will break every time he has any negative emotion toward his body.
You just wish he could see how incredible he is because, honestly, you wouldn’t change a single thing about him.
You have that one hot, slim celebrity that you compare him to and it always makes him smile.
Matthew Gray Gubler is bae and so are you, hot stuff.
You’ll lose weight and feel really good about it until you watch him eat literally whatever he wants and still look better than you.
Can you at least pretend you don’t have superhuman abilities for two seconds?
You will see skinny girls and think he’d rather have a girl like that, but he will shut that down real quick.
Because in the same way you feel about him, he loves you just the way you are.
He will go through phases where he tries to bulk up and be very disappointed with the results.
This is where love and support from you comes in.
You will start to become more body positive because he will never let you feel like you aren’t the sexiest thing alive.
TBH I’ve never felt so admired in my life.
His pants sag a lot, but not on purpose.
He is aware of this and does not need constant reminders.
He is cold 99.99% of the time.
Outdoor autumn nighttime concerts downtown are not the best idea unless he is wearing lots of layers. Also, bring your own jacket. Don’t be a prick and ask for his. He is very cold.
Buying him any sort of clothing as a gift is nearly impossible.
Pants that fit his waist are too short and watches are a challenge all their own.
You may be surprised by his strength.
Slim does not equal weak, I assure you.
You will love him no matter what.
When it comes down to it, it doesn’t matter that you’re curvy and he’s slim. It doesn’t matter that you both have insecure days and moments that you wish you looked like someone else. No matter what either of you look like, you’re together because of the hearts within.
And I mean… I guess it helps that you’re both flaming hot.